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@ Selah Counseling – Louisville, Kentucky | Lakewood Ranch, Florida
(502) 817-4084 | (941) 390-3601
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carmen@carmenscounseling.com

Carmen Frederick

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How Your Relationship With Your Father Shapes Your Relationships Today

June 21, 2026 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Most of us can easily identify qualities we inherited from our fathers. Perhaps he taught you the value of hard work, integrity, perseverance, humor, faith, generosity, or responsibility. Maybe he encouraged you to pursue your goals, try new things, or believe in yourself when you doubted your abilities. At the same time, many of us […]

Filed Under: Relationship with Father, Relationships Tagged With: Adult Relationships, attachment, Emotional Health, family dynamics, Family of Origin, Father and Daughter Relationships, Father and Son Relationships, Father Relationships, Personal Growth, Relationship Patterns, Relationship With Your Father, Self-Esteem

How Your Relationship With Your Mother Shapes Your Relationships Today

May 8, 2026 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Attachment, emotional connection, and the patterns that often begin early in life Your relationship with your mother may be one of the most influential relationships of your life. For some people, it brings feelings of warmth, safety, steadiness, and gratitude. For others, it brings a mix of love, confusion, longing, hurt, or emotional complexity. And […]

Filed Under: Relationship With Mother, Relationships & Attachment Tagged With: attachment, attachment patterns, counseling, emotional healing, emotionally unavailable mother, family dynamics, mother wounds, relationship anxiety, relationship with mother, relationships therapy, secure attachment

When Mother’s Day Is Hard

May 8, 2026 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

When honoring your mother isn’t simple—and your story is more complicated than the day allows Mother’s Day is presented as something simple. Honor your mother. Celebrate. Be grateful. And for some people, it is. But for many…it isn’t. Because this day doesn’t just arrive quietly. It builds. Your email is filled with Mother’s Day offers […]

Filed Under: Relationship With Mother, Women's Issues Tagged With: attachment, Christian counseling, emotional healing, family relationships, grief, mental health, Mother’s Day, relationship with mother, therapy, women’s counseling

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Carmen Frederick, M.Ed., Ed.S., is a Licensed Psychological Associate in the Commonwealth of Kentucky. All of Carmen's services are provided through Selah Counseling - Louisville, where she is employed. "Carmen's Counseling", as used on social media and www.carmenscounseling.com are used solely as professional marketing, website and social media outlets.