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Carmen Frederick

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When Talking Isn’t Enough: Faith-Integrated Therapy for Anxiety and Relationship Stress

January 25, 2026 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Many people seek therapy hoping that greater insight will finally bring relief—understanding why anxiety persists, why the same relationship patterns repeat, or why stress feels overwhelming even when life appears stable. Insight matters. Faith matters. But for many individuals and couples, talking alone does not lead to lasting change. In my work as a licensed […]

Filed Under: Anxiety and Stress, Faith-Integrated Counseling Tagged With: anxiety therapy, attachment-based therapy, emotional regulation, faith and mental health, nervous system regulation, relationship stress, talk therapy limitations

Christian Marriage Counseling After an Affair: What Healing Can Look Like

January 15, 2026 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Discovering infidelity can feel deeply disorienting. For many couples, it brings shock, grief, confusion, and a sense that the ground beneath the marriage has shifted. For Christian couples, the pain is often layered with questions about faith, forgiveness, trust, and what covenant truly means in the aftermath of betrayal. If this is where you find […]

Filed Under: Couples/Marriage Tagged With: Affair recovery, Christian counseling, Christian couples, Christian marriage counseling, Faith-informed counseling, Gottman Method Couples therapy, Infidelity recovery, Marriage counseling, Marriage healing, Trust and betrayal

How to Cope with the Stress and Anxiety Caused by COVID-19

April 5, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

If you are like most people, you are doing your best to stay calm during the COVID-19 pandemic.  There are days or hours when you feel calm.  You may be embracing the positives of “social distancing” or enjoying working from home.  At other times, it can be difficult to manage the stress and anxiety. Concerns […]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Covid-19 Tagged With: Anxiety, Covid-19, Stress

5 Ways to Effectively Manage Anxiety

March 23, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

If you suffer from anxiety, you know that awful feeling when heart races, you start to sweat, and you feel like you just want to run. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, anxiety disorders are the most common form of mental illness in the United States, affecting roughly 40 million adults. While […]

Filed Under: Anxiety, General

Five Minutes to Better Mental Health: Gratitude and the Brain

March 4, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Five Minutes to Better Mental Health: Gratitude and the Brain Gratitude is derived from the Latin word ‘gratia’, meaning gratefulness or thankfulness. When we express gratitude and receive the same, our brain releases dopamine and serotonin, two crucial neurotransmitters responsible for well-being and contentment. The practice of gratitude encourages your brain to seek out more […]

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How to Set Healthy Boundaries

March 2, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Relationships can only be healthy when both people have the space to be themselves and maintain their personal integrity. Sadly, many people find themselves in relationships, romantic and otherwise, with people who do not respect boundaries and feel entitled to have their needs met regardless of the other person’s. These people most likely grew up […]

Filed Under: Women's Issues

3 Ways to Minimize Seasonal Depression

February 29, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Seasonal depression, also known as Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD for short, is a form of depression that typically impacts people during the winter months, when exposure to sunlight and temperature changes naturally occur. Research indicates that about six percent of the American population, primarily those people living in northern states, suffers from SAD. It is […]

Filed Under: Depression

Is Social Media Bad for Your Mental Health?

February 13, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Have you been feeling a bit low lately, but you can’t quite put your finger on why? It may have something to do with your social media habits. According to a recent study, social media use can increase depression and loneliness. For years people have suspected that social media use might have an ability to […]

Filed Under: Addiction, Adolescents/Teens, Depression

Pets Are Better Than Medication

February 4, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

“Dogs have a way of finding the people who need them, and filling an emptiness we didn’t ever know we had.” – Thom Jones For many of us, our home is just a house unless there is something with four legs and a tail sharing the space with us. Our pets are not only cuddly […]

Filed Under: General

Coping with Seasonal Affective Disorder

February 3, 2020 by Carmen Frederick Leave a Comment

Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, is a major depressive disorder that occurs during the same season each year. Also known as the “winter blues,” SAD typically comes on in the fall and winter, when the light is diminished. SAD is believed to affect nearly 10 million Americans and is four times more common in women […]

Filed Under: Depression, General, Issues for Women

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Carmen Frederick, M.Ed., Ed.S., is a Licensed Psychological Associate in the Commonwealth of Kentucky. All of Carmen's services are provided through Selah Counseling - Louisville, where she is employed. "Carmen's Counseling", as used on social media and www.carmenscounseling.com are used solely as professional marketing, website and social media outlets.